Gunpowder, lavender and everything IN BETWEEN
Aditha Dissanayake
She
was a grocer’s daughter who reached the high echelons of power as the
first female prime minister of Britain. She led her Conservative Party
to three straight election wins and held office for 11 years, (from May
1979 to November 1990) longer than any other British politician in the
20th century. She went to war with Argentina. She helped guide the
United States and the Soviet Union through the cold war’s difficult last
years. She once advised George W. Bush that it would be unwise of him
not to go to war with Iraq. “Remember, George,” she is said to have told
him, “this is no time to go wobbly.” At one meeting she slammed down the
famous black handbag she carried everywhere on a table and snapped,”I
haven’t much time today, only enough time to explode and have my way.”
Yet, paradoxically, according to her biographer, Claire Berlinski,
the handbag smelled like talcum and lily, and not at all like “napalm
and gun powder.”
A picture dated February 1975 shows British Conservative Party
leader Margaret Thatcher, then 49, posing in the kitchen of her
Chelsea home in London following her February 11,1975 election
at the head of the Tory. AFP |
Former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher (R) meeting
personnel aboard the ship HMS Antrim during her fiveday visit to
the Falkand Islands in January 8, 1983 . AFP |
Margaret Hilda Thatcher who died as Baroness Thatcher of Kesteven on
Monday morning at the age of eighty seven was better known as the Iron
Lady. Though this tag would come later, she lived up to it when she
started life at 10, Downing Street, quoting St. Francis of Assisi.
“Where there is error, may we bring truth. Where there is doubt, may we
bring faith. And where there is despair, may we bring hope.”
Homespun philosophy
In the years that lay ahead, her name would come to be associated
with free-market economists like Adam Smith, Friedrich Hayek, and Milton
Friedman. But political analysts realized that her guiding philosophy
was really more homespun. “Some say I preach merely the homilies of
housekeeping or the parables of the parlour,” Mrs. Thatcher said, in a
1982 speech at a banquet in London. “But I do not repent. Those parables
would have saved many a financier from failure and many a country from
crisis.”
The down-to-earth philosophy that guided her was undoubtedly
inherited from her father, a shop-owner by the time she was born, and
her mother, who was a sempstress before marriage. Both of them believed
in hard work, thrift, and balancing the books.
In Margaret Thatcher's own words, as recorded in her autobiography
‘The Path to Power’, she came from a working class family.“Four
generations of the Roberts family had been shoemakers in
Northamptonshire, at that time a great centre of the shoe industry. My
father, who had wanted to be a teacher, had to leave school at thirteen
because the family could not afford for him to stay on. He went instead
to work at Oundle, one of the better public (i.e. private) schools.
Years later, when I was answering questions in the House of Commons,
Eric Heffer, a left-wing Labour MP and regular sparring partner of mine,
tried to pull working-class rank by mentioning that his father had been
a carpenter at Oundle. He was floored when I was able to retort that
mine had worked in the tuck shop there.”
She goes on to say “family tradition has it that I was a very quiet
baby, which my political opponents might have some difficulty in
believing.”
Not only her political opponents but her staff and the rest of the
world as well. Brisk and argumentative, she was rarely willing to
concede a point. Colleagues who disagreed with her were often deluged in
a sea of facts, or what many referred to as being “handbagged.”
Courage and determination
She could push and bully her colleagues and show them that she could
do more work on less sleep than any of them. According to her onetime
press secretary, Bernard Ingham, “she was absolutely determined to
demonstrate that she could beat the men. She worked very late, and had
this disconcerting habit at midnight of saying, ‘Oh, you do look very
tired, go to bed,’ and one o’clock came, and she’d say, ‘Got your second
wind?’ Ingham further adds, “She was absolutely incapable of realizing
how humiliating it was for a man to be hammered by her in the presence
of other men. She just didn’t get it … ”
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Most powerful female icon of the 20th century is no more |
Former British Prime Minister Baroness Margaret Thatcher (L)
meets with current Premier Gordon Brown at 10 Downing Street, in
central London in 2007. AFP |
Two-year old
Holly Surridge is given flowers to place outside the home of
former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher in London, on
April 9, 2013. AFP |
No wonder the White House's statement after her death held the
following lines: “As a grocer’s daughter who rose to become Britain’s
first female prime minister, she stands as an example to our daughters
that there is no glass ceiling that can’t be shattered.”
Yet, was Margaret Thatcher a feminist icon? Can her story be narrated
simply in terms of gender and power? Probably not.
Though she was the first woman to lead a major political party in the
West, she rubbed many feminists the wrong way. “The battle for women’s
rights has largely been won,” she declared. “I hate those strident tones
we hear from some women’s libbers.” She saw feminism as poison and
advised “You don’t follow the crowd. You make up your own mind.”
Feminist traits
Yet, she had the traits of a feminist. She was a warrior and a
workaholic. Throughout her career she resolutely demonstrated a strong
wish to be in total control. She definitely did not have the temperament
of the stay- at- home- housewife. After she left no 10, Downing Street
she said “Home is where you come to when you have nothing better to do.”
Changeless, ageless, tireless - these words were frequently applied
to the lady whom former German Chancellor Helmut Schmidt, defined as
“the best man in Europe”.
Further complicating any analysis of her magnetism, Ronald Millar, a
playwright and speechwriter for the prime minister says “Margaret
Thatcher evoked extreme feelings. To some she could do no right, to
others no wrong. Indifference was not an option. She could stir almost
physical hostility in normally rational people, while she inspired
deathless devotion in others.”The best insight into her personality is
revealed in a conversation she has with Roy Plomley on a BBC radio show
called Desert Island Discs in which she appeared as a guest in 1978. As
Lauren Collins writes in the New Yorker, here she is, as she really was.
ROY PLOMLEY:
Flowers and mementos left by members of the public and admirers
sit outside the home of former British Prime Minister Margaret
Thatcher in central London on April 8th 2013. AFP |
Now, Mrs. Thatcher, how important to you is music?
THATCHER: It’s what I go to when I want to take refuge in something
completely different, when I want to go from the very logical life that
I’ve lived, and I’ve always been trained to live, really to a different
depth of experience.
PLOMLEY:
You play the piano, don’t you?
THATCHER: Yes, but I don’t play any longer. I didn’t get time enough
to practice, and I couldn’t bear hearing myself play badly. Or, what
happens to you, after a time, is you never learn anything new. You go on
playing the things which you learned as a young person and never learn
anything new, so I’m afraid I just don’t play at all now. One day, when
I’ve retired, I’ll take it up again.
PLOMLEY:
Now, as a schoolgirl, what were your ambitions? Why had you set your
sights on going up to Oxford?
THATCHER: I had some very strange ambitions. In my church
life, I remember missionaries coming and talking to us about their
experience. And I remember that, in the early days, I wanted to go into
the, it existed then, the Indian civil service, because there was a
tremendous desire to serve. And I knew that to do that, you had to go to
university.
“But quite apart from that, you know the opportunity to go to
university was, to us, almost a challenge undreamed of. My father had
never done it. And I was lucky I was quite good at school, and so it was
assumed that I would try to go to university. The subject was clearly
marked out for me, and so it just seemed perfectly natural. And what was
Oxford or Cambridge were, to me, worlds that I’d heard about, and it’s
always a good thing to aim for the top. And I did.”
She sure did.
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