Naked truth about interviews :
Fine art of image stripping
Gaston de Rosayro
The difficulty with job interviews is that so much advice is
published on how to survive them - if you’re the interviewee that is.
Even seasoned interviewees occasionally get butterflies. Being nervous
weighs you down, makes the interview seem interminable and makes you
look uptight. More importantly, it prevents you from being who you are.
Although being nervous is not something you can easily control, you can
learn to mask it. I was offered some tips in this regard from a
job-hopping uncle who actually created a record of sorts in the pursuit
of professions.
Uncle Roger, later known as ‘Dodger,’ secured more than 30 jobs in an
astoundingly successful and chequered career. As a rolling stone he
adroitly leapfrogged all opposing contenders with the panache of an
athlete of Olympian magnitude. I was a callow youth at the time when
Roger advised me that I could clip the wings of the butterflies and
reinforce my sense of superiority with a little imagination. The advice
he advocated was simple yet bizarre. He insisted that I should picture
my interviewers without clothes.
Uncle Roger conveying a peculiarly deadpan expression propounded his
theory thus: “All it takes is a little imagination, my boy. You simply
have to conjure a mental image of the persons holding your future in
their hands in their birthday suits. I emphasize nude, as starkers under
their clothes, do you understand?”
I nodded in reluctant agreement while he went on to clarify the
importance of visualizing the big-shot inquisitors in their natural
state: “And if you feel the interview is going nowhere, or the employers
are rude or trying to be patronizing just give them hell. Kick them up
their...well you-know-where...and get the hell out of there.
It’s the image, dear boy, or rather the satisfaction of stripping
them of that image of all-powerful control in your mind that counts
most. And when I say projecting them in the raw, I mean the ultra form
of unconcealed raw that has come to be commonly accepted as ‘buck
naked.’ Get it?” he barked.
I nodded again in acquiescence. After all he had been the undisputed
champion of all roving job-seekers and a darn successful one at that.
And in similarity to Julius Caesar’s immortal ‘Veni, Vidi, Vici’ (I
came, I saw, I conquered) Roger’s line with a slight amendment should
have read: “I came. I worked. I vanished”.
Having tried to practice the maestro’s technique, I must say quite
honestly, that I am not quite sure this advice actually works to your
advantage all the time. What I mean is it works sometimes, such as when
I was alone in the ring with a quartet of grossly corpulent bullies with
slack jaws and even slacker blanch mangling bellies and bottoms. They
were all confrontational and offensive. I had already decided I was not
going to work for this gang of goons at any cost.
The ad-firm vacancy was for a copywriter. But one of the fat-faced
brigands kept harping on my lack of expertise in computer technology
with aggressive impertinence. I was in a career-suicide mood by then. I
stretched out across the conference table and switched on the public
intercom so the whole office could hear the debate before spitting out
my venom: “Now look here fat man, I am a wordsmith not a functional,
fiddlesome computer technician. Besides, artificial intelligence could
be no match for your natural stupidity.”
The entire group was gob-smacked. My questioner turned apoplectic
stuttering: “Wha...wha...what did you just say?” I was in total control
by now and enjoying every moment of it. “You heard me the first time,
you and your mob of tyrannical obese goons. If any of you grossly
overweight slobs dare stand up I will puncture your blubbering bellies.
You can take your job and shove it where the monkey stuffed his nuts.
I strode purposefully out of that boardroom to be greeted by a cacophony
of resounding cheers in the general office area. I acknowledged the
adulation with a flutter of airy half salutes as expected of a
conquering hero. Then I was out of that office like a bat out of Hell! |