Misplaced loyalty - and a school suffers
Richard Dwight
Unlike in those good old years, we now live in an era, where
sportsmen with little or no qualms easily switch from one club to
another. For this seems to be the accepted done thing in other
institutions and segments as well.
This unhealthy attitude and approach, sadly does appear to be gaining
ground to be infectious enough, to become habit forming . So much so,
that it has even spilled over to the arena of sports in schools, where
star players leave their schools, to perform for another.
Disheartening it must be, for the reason that schools take much pain
to inculcate and instil the virtue of loyalty, within their students.
This they do by disciplining their charges to honour the school
blazer, tie, cap and reverence the college song and anthem. Not
forgetting as well other avenues by which the school strives to foster
loyalty, which does give credibility to the saying "Once a......yite,
always a.....yite".
In instances and situations where a student from one school enters
another. It must be ensured that the newcomer undergoes a gestation
period of at least two years, in order to have possessive pride and a
sense of belonging to his adopted new school.
We are labouring on this, simply because we were made aware during a
schools rugby match, that two senior rugby players on being debarred to
play for the school on grounds of discipline, joined another school and
continued to play.
Thus nullifying the disciplinary action taken against the two
players. And the irony of it all was, that when the two schools played
each other, the two players in question, played a decisive role in
defeating their former school.
We are not casting any aspersions on either school, for the two
school heads on mutual consultation, had agreed that the boys continue
playing.
The question of divided loyalties and the ensuring embarrassment,
could arise amongst impressionable minds, to leave youngsters confused.
But then we exist now in an environment, where the terms loyalty and
embarrassment has lost its meaning and relevance.
Alas! what a fall loyalty, what a fall. |