Diamond Lessons
Aditha DISSANAYAKE
From the moment of her ascension to the
throne in 1952 at the age of twenty-five, Queen Elizabeth II has led her
country and Commonwealth through the wars and upheavals of the last
sixty years with unparalleled composure, intelligence, and grace. -
Sally Bedell Smith in "Elizabeth, the Queen"
If, like me, you have been guiltily following the Queen of England's
Diamond Jubilee celebrations on British websites at the beginning of
this month, you are bound to have read everything about the Diamond
Jubilee lunch at Westminster Hall, with over 700 guests including the
Queen's children and grand children. In case you missed it, here is
something you might like to know. The exotic menu with dishes like
Marinated Uist Island Salmon with Lyme Bay Crab and Sancerre Sauvignon
Blanc from Bué Loire Valley was followed by a symphony of desserts
accompanied by drinks; Fairtrade Coffee, Petit Fours and Ceylon tea.
While marveling at the power of our tea, preferred even by royalty
you might have enjoyed the fireworks display at Buckingham Palace, shown
on the BBC website. A display of lights and sound the likes of which
they say had not been seen in London since Hitler's bombers appeared
overhead in September, 1940.
Shortly after Sir Paul McCartney had finished singing "Ob-La-Di,
Ob-La-Da" to bring the Jubilee concert to an end, the Queen lit a
beacon, and giant flashes appeared from the roof of the palace to the
opening strains of "Land of Hope and Glory,/How shall we extol thee, who
are born of thee?....God, who made thee mighty, make thee mightier yet."
Even as you watched the celebrations with fascination, at the same
time, if you found these invocations of imperial power a bit too much,
you are not alone. A former planter who was present when the Queen
visited Nuwara Eilya on her visit to Sri Lanka in 1954 says "neither a
monarch nor a monarchy is worthy of positive comment because it involves
a number of negative attitudes and a negative way of life."
But critics of the monarchy, are undoubtedly fighting a losing
battle. Opinion polls released shortly before the Diamond Jubilee
celebrations in Britain showed that the monarchy is more popular than it
has been in decades: eight out of ten Britons want to retain it, while
just one in eight favors establishing a republic. The royal family
continues to stand as a nostalgic symbol of a once truly Great Britain.
Thanks to Queen Elizabeth II. Putting his 86-year-old mother's 60
years on the throne into perspective - in three years Elizabeth will
become the longest-reigning monarch in British history - the Prince of
Wales in an interview on the BBC said, "The Diamond Jubilee gives us the
chance to celebrate with pride all that the Queen means to us - whether
as a nation or as one of her children...The fact that my Mama has been a
constant feature on the scene has provided that sense, I think, of
continuity in a time of immense change over 60 years."
According to royal historian Robert Lacey in his book "Monarch: The
Life and Reign of Elizabeth II" the only time the Queen "misbehaved in
public was at her christening. She cried throughout, and had to be dosed
with dill water." Lacey further adds "driven out of the Royal Mews in an
open carriage for her regular airings, the diapered Elizabeth drew large
crowds of cheering, waving admirers; one of her earliest skills was to
wave back. She made the cover of Time at the age of three. The first
biography, "The Story of Princess Elizabeth," appeared when she was
four. "She has an air of authority and reflectiveness astonishing in an
infant," wrote Winston Churchill, who would be the first of her ten
Prime Ministers.
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Queen Elizabeth II
and Prince Philip watch soldiers
ride past Buckingham Palace.
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Prince Charles,
Prince of Wales, Queen Elizabeth II, Prince Philip, Duke of
Edinburgh, Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge and Prince
William watch a fly-past from the balcony of Buckingham
Palace following the Queen’s Birthday Parade, ‘Trooping the
Colour’ at Horse Guards Parade in London on June 16. |
Undying popularity:
Queen Elizabeth II receives
flowers from members of the public. AFP
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And the Princess was, at this stage, a minor royal, as Martin Amis
points out in his essay "The Queen's Heart". She was the granddaughter
of George V (whom she called Grandpa England), and the niece of the heir
apparent, Edward, Prince of Wales. The King died in January, 1936, when
Elizabeth was nine. On December 10th, Edward VIII signed the "Instrument
of Abdication" (in order to marry the twice-divorced Wallis Simpson).
The ten-year-old now became the heir presumptive. While her father, who
was suddenly George VI, went off to the Accession Council on December
12th, Princess Elizabeth and her sister, Princess Margaret, were given a
refresher course on their curtsy by their governess, Marion Crawford; on
his return they greeted him with this formality, and it jolted him. "He
stood for a moment touched and taken aback. Then he stooped and kissed
them both warmly," Nanny Crawford wrote. "Does that mean you're going to
be Queen?" was a question Margaret put to her sister. "Yes, I suppose it
does," said Elizabeth. "Poor you," said Margaret. Their grandmother Lady
Strathmore noticed that Elizabeth had started "ardently praying for a
brother."
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Queen
Elizabeth II then. |
Like most modern women, the Queen too married for love. Prince Philip
of Greece was her third cousin, and she had known him, slightly, since
childhood. Although penniless and homeless, and a nomad all his life,
Philip could boast a sensational pedigree (he had a
great-great-grandmother in common with Elizabeth: Queen Victoria).
Elizabeth knew what she would be needing in a husband?a source of
strength. And this was the strength that Philip was still able to offer
his grandsons, nearly sixty years later, on that Saturday in 1997 when
they heard of their mother's fatal car accident.
This was the one moment that bruised the Queen's image. In the days
after Diana's death in Paris on Aug. 31, 1997, she remained ensconced in
her Scottish home at Balmoral, prompting bitter complaints from public
and press that she wasn't sharing the nation's pain. Belatedly, she made
a sober television address and joined the mourners, letting it be known
that she had been caring for Diana's children, Princes William and
Harry.
According to Lacey; "Word of the car crash reached Balmoral Castle,
in Scotland, at one o'clock in the morning of August 31, 1997. Word of
the death came through at four. Prince Charles was in residence, with
his sons; the Queen advised him not to wake them (they would need all
their strength), adding, "We must get the radios out of their rooms."
Charles broke the news just after seven. Prince Harry, then twelve,
couldn't quite take it in. Was everyone sure? he asked; would somebody
check? The boys were asked if they would like to accompany the family to
church. (It was Sunday.) Prince William, then fifteen, wanted to
attend?so he could "talk to Mummy."
Yet, the Queen overcomes this short lapse in her reign with
commendable courage and determination. In the speech she makes after her
daughter in law's death she makes it clear, "what I say to you now,as
your Queen and as a grandmother, I say from my heart." Observers say it
was an extraordinary performance: she gave a near-pathological populace
what it wanted, while remaining true to her own self.
History, luckily does not seem to be repeating. Duchess Catherine
(Kate) seems to have entered the royal family with none of the angst
suffered by her late mother-in-law, the People's Princess. Prince
Charles, has referred to Kate as "my darling daughter-in-law," and
sources have described the Queen as "extremely fond" of Catherine as
well.
It is easy to find reasons for all this affection. Kate, (who if she
goes on to become queen, will be the first Queen of England with a
college degree), has performed her royal role flawlessly since her
engagement to William. She has given a speech, and has appeared at
numerous official functions, with virtually no mistakes. The Queen also
approves of Kate's practical nature: Kate is not overly fond of
shopping, and has been seen several times wearing dresses she has worn
before. She is not fussy, (reporters noted that during her engagement
announcement, her fingernails were neatly trimmed but unpolished).
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Queen Elizabeth II with Princess Diana in 1987 |
Queen with Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge |
Moreover, she and Prince William seem exceptionally happy. They have
reasons to be so. Last year the Queen confirmed that the monarchy's
archaic system of male-preference primogeniture is to be overturned,
meaning that a daughter born first to William and Kate will now
automatically inherit the throne, rather than having to give way to her
younger brother.
The royal historian Robert Lacey knows best. He believes firmly this
proposal originates with the Queen and her family rather than with the
government. "I think they're fully aware of the fact that our most
successful monarchs have been women - Elizabeth I, Queen Anne, Queen
Victoria, our own queen. In a modern society, where the royals have
psychic power rather than actual power, it's all about keeping the
monarchy in business - and they know that a woman will probably do that
better than a man."
A glimpse of Queen Elizabeth's biography is ample proof Lacey knows
what he is saying. The queen has maintained an incredibly high level of
respect even in the most conservative, male-dominated societies in the
world. She has shown herself to be strong, adaptable and determined. If
you are a feminist or otherwise, it is surely impossible not to take
pride in the fact that the longest-standing head of state in the world
and the person who has been a beacon of stability and continuity in all
the varied countries of the Commonwealth is... yes....a woman.
To quote from the song - Land of Hope and Glory, "Wider still and
wider shall thy bounds be set."
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