Of lie-sheets, lying eyes and other fascinating things
There are times I feel that the entire world is an intricately and
painstakingly embroidered sheet specifically designed to cheat the eye.
There are times I feel that after gazing on this lie-sheet for years and
years the eye itself gets its mechanism reconfigured to add mischief to
the already mischief-laden recipients of gaze. That would be a
double-lie then.
I am not sure if this is a species ailment or else a defense
mechanism of humankind but if there is some truth to what I am
proposing, there is cause for lament as well as celebration.
‘Celebration’ because we do go from moment to moment, day to day and
through month, year and lifetime with a rough balance of joy and sorrow,
loss and gain and so on, as individuals, collectives and as a species
too. ‘Lament’ because an existence made of monumental falsehood,
deliberate distortion and willing or unwilling victimhood of lie-sheet
is pretty depressing.
Public consumption
I have wondered what lies under the lie-sheet and sometimes have been
surprised by the lies that lie beneath as well. Is life a collection of
appearances? Is that which we believe to be true in reality the product
of a set of accomplished beauticians who with eye-liner and blush,
powder puff and foundation give us a world that does not blind the
innocent eye, perhaps with a subtle dash of blemish to obtain
conviction?
I remember a conversation that took place in a small cafe called
Stella’s in Ithaca, NY in the winter of 1999/2000. My friend Ayca and I
were arguing with our Iranian-American friend Kamran. Kamran was
insisting that there is such a thing called objective truth.
‘This table exists!’, he declared. ‘It is a chair not a table, if
someone sat on it,’ I countered. ‘It exists only within a particular
context,’ Ayca pointed out, ‘it was a tree a few years ago and a few
years from now it will be in pieces’.
Forbidden love
That’s just one kind of lie, one kind of lying and self-delusion.
There are less abstract lies which we embrace with passion. Quite apart
from the lie implied in the fact that the truth of anything is framed by
time, space and perception, there are outright lies that confront us and
we toss around for public consumption. Now a certain school of sociology
might offer that lie-sheet has a function. In a context-bound sense, I
would not disagree. Indeed, there is very little that an individual can
do to completely unravel lie-embroidery.
At best we can but caution ourselves about the truth-value of that
which lies before our eyes. What’s tough is to recognize the stitches
we’ve added to the lie-tapestry and to do our little bit of desisting.
How many of us are unafraid to be seen nude, metaphorically and
literally? Is it modesty alone and some kind of misplaced benevolence
about not wanting to hurt someone that makes us hide the truth about
ourselves? What do we become when we feed the mismatch between self and
image of self-portrayed to the world? Doesn’t there come a time when our
masks replace our faces forever, not just to the beholder but to
ourselves? And is that new mask-face real or less real than that which
it replaced? Is there some honesty in cultivating mask and then making
so much face that the face it used to be seems to be illusion?
Why is it so hard to admit love? In my many moments of insanity I’ve
noticed a terrorist called Fear of Convention prowling stealthily in the
City of Forbidden Love. I am convinced that in Licit City, hidden by
familiarity, there are secret pathways to parallel realities of bliss
and heartache. But then again, I wonder at times whether my eyes have
been so tainted by years and years of gazing on lie-sheet that I have
been rendered incapable of distinguishing anything from anything else.
Non-sleeping hours
I think there’s a good case for closing one’s eyes during
non-sleeping hours. Even then, I am aware, that memory is a skillful
mischief-maker that can somehow creep and take up residence between
eyeball and eyelid. Reminds me of a beautiful line penned by Eduardo
Galeano: ‘I can’t sleep, there’s a woman stuck between my eyelids; I
would tell her to leave, but there’s a woman stuck in my throat.’
We can never ever sleep the slumber of bliss, I sometimes feel. We
are rendered speechless by the things we allow to inhabit our throats.
We are blinded therefore. We are without voice and we also starve.
It all makes one wish for congenital blindness as well as absence of
other senses. That’s still a wish, a cop-out of a kind. We have to see,
despite the woman who blocks vision. We have to speak despite the woman
who inhabits throat. We have to see with lie-flawed eye and seek truth
in a lie-sheet and beyond.
There’s a lot of clutter that inhibits us. It is mostly self-made, I
tend to think.
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