Someone to love, someone true

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Someone I love

Can you live without love? We wish to love someone and like to have someone's love. But the search for a soul mate is not a easy thing. For some it takes a very long time. But for others, they find their life partner in an instant.

What is the real meaning of love? I think no one can describe it fully.

Some say love is sacrifice, being jealous, happy, sad and understanding. Some people love for a long time before they get married. But after a few years they couldn't stand it. Some end up in divorce.

Young people say, "I can't understand her (him). She (he) is changing day by day. But you must accept the change because it is just a way of things.

But the most important thing is to understand your partner and accept his or her change with patience.

True love or fake love - how to know if it is real

To find whether you have true love or not, can be tricky. Feelings must be analyzed before they can be assessed for what they truly are. The best way to find out how you really feel about someone is to it down and dissect the feelings.

Signs of unreal love

* Think of your partner as being perfect

* Concerned with your needs first

* Need to spend all your free time with your partner

* Quickly becoming infatuated with your partner

* Tend to be jealous easily

* Inability to arrive at a compromise after an altercation or a fight.

Signs of true love

* Accept your partner together with his or her flaws

* Be concerned with your partner's needs first

* To be comfortable at times when you are apart from one another

* Slowly falling for your partner

* Trust your partner completely

* Ability to resolve a fight and grow stronger through it.

Many couples may complain that it is hard to find time even talk each other in their busy day. But some couples say when they meet they do not have things to talk.

Doing things separately gives you a chance to fill in the blanks that your partner may not be able to fill for you. For example if one of you likes sports and the other likes arts, use your spare time to go to a gym or enroll in a dancing class. At the end of your day, you will find that you have more to talk about. It will help freshen things up for your relationship.