Natural Vs artificial aphrodisiacs
BY ADITHA Dissanayake
DO you remember the television advertisement which shows so vividly,
how easy it is to hold the partner of your dreams in your arms,
stretched out on a snooker table, listening to the strains of Purple
Rain, if you had dabbed yourself with perfume before leaving home?
Perfumes, the belief in the seductive powers of which, is as old as
Cleopatra, are said to be best applied, (according to the Greek poet
Appolonius), on the body's 'hot spots' (the breasts, neck, earlobes and
wrist pulse).
In one of the most erotic love poems in the world, the Song of
Solomon, the lovers spend the night sampling each other's honey breath
and lips perfumed with myrrh. ("Thy lips..., drop as the honeycomb, and
the smell of thy garments is like the smell of Lebanon"). Today,
however, the herbs, spices and flowers used for their sweet smells by
the Ancients have been replaced by aftershave lotions and deodorants.
In other words, by artificial aphrodisiacs, which come in glass
containers of different sizes, shapes and prices. Some in stylish slim
bottles with silver bands and marble tops. Others in elegant flasks but
with narrow necks and gold coloured bands running round the stopper.
So exotic, so elegant that sometimes it is the bottle that seems to
matter more than the perfume. And they all have appropriate names that
evoke passion. i.e "eternity", "nude" "blue water" , "opium" "escape"
and "poison" to name only a few.
But what are these perfumes made of? Apparently, formulas used for
making perfumes are considered trade secrets and manufacturers are under
no obligation to release them.
However, as any graduate in chemistry will tell you perfumes contain
harmful chemicals like ethanol, acetone, formaldehyde and benzene which
could cause dizziness, vertigo and skin diseases as well as cancer and
infertility.
According to a recent program on Discovery Channel, animals like
mountain goats choose their mates by smelling one another. When a pig is
in the mood to mate he breaths heavily in the direction of the sow he
favors. If she likes his breath she succumbs.
It's no secret that humans have a very poorly developed sense of
smell compared with other animals. Yet, even though our upright position
prevents us from adopting the methods adopted by our wild counterparts
(we can't, for example, go down on our hands and knees to smell each
other), don't we also have natural body odours which stimulate desire?
Sure we do. Scientists believe the air around us is filled with
chemicals called pheromones, made from the Greek words, pherin which
means to carry, and horman meaning to excite.
The pleasant musky smell of masculine sweat is said to attract women,
especially during the middle of their menstrual cycles, when they are at
their most fertile.
Men, in turn are unconsciously attracted to the isovaleric acid
secreted by women which is most powerful during ovulation. These
secretions are not consciously noted, yet, act as powerful attractants.
Undoubtedly then, there is nothing as fragrant and healthy as bodily
odours, but in minute concentrations. For, according to anthropologist
Louis Leakey, too much odour might become an anti-attractant as it did
for our ancestors who owed their survival to the offensive smell of
their flesh, which predators found repulsive.
But, there is no arguing that there are no superior aphrodisiacs when
it comes to courting, than those secreted by your own body, in which
case its best that you use all the old perfume bottles to collect your
own sweat.
You could be prepared then, if your partner too sends you a message
the way Napoleon did, who, whenever he had time to leave the battlefield
wrote to Josephine, saying "Ne te laves pas, je reviens." (Don't wash,
I'm coming home"). |