LIFE ABROAD - Part 13:
JAW JAW IN ENGLISH!
The comforting thought in visiting England could be regarded as the
absence of any language barrier as most of the Sri Lankans who travel
abroad are familiar with the English language. The problems one can
experience without being able to speak a foreign language fluently
(except English) when travelled to other countries like France, Italy,
Germany or even Thailand can be traumatising because people in those
countries make it a point to avoid speaking in English, even if they are
able to converse, in preference to their own mother tongue.
As a student, once I travelled with a friend on an overland camping
trip to the Continent covering around 3,000 mile round trip starting
from London and going through Belgium, France, Italy, Austria,
Switzerland and back to London via Germany.
The experience on the trip itself was a story that could accommodate
a separate column!
On the last leg from Cologne in Germany, enroute back to London to
catch the ferry to cross the English Channel, I was ‘at the wheel’. My
friend decided to use his old Austin Cambridge vehicle (Tuwakku model)
for the trip despite my suggestion to hire a better vehicle for such a
long tour.
There was nothing more frustrating than having to be at the driving
seat while modern Mercedes Benz, BMWs and Porche´ on the Autobahn
overtook us on the fast lane at bullet speed while the Austin Cambridge,
under heavy pressure from my right toe on the accelerator, attempted to
moan groan and obey my orders to best of her capacity!
Frustration
At a moment when I felt like virtually standing on the accelerator
pedal’ (similar to bull-pack cart drivers in Sri Lanka biting the tail
of the bull to run faster) Austin Cambridge started to protest. Suddenly
with a big thud and a loud cry she stopped listening to my commands
anymore! From the engine noise it indicated that something drastic had
taken place - needless to say, the engine had given up the ghost
(Pistons ceased).
With the limited knowledge of German I knew, we managed to get an
ADAC (similar to AA) vehicle breakdown service which towed us to the
nearest motor repair garage on the Autobahn. The car being an old
British model, air- freighting of spare parts was going to take weeks
while we were left only with a breathing space to catch the ferry to get
back to London.
Under the circumstances, my friend’s eye caught a smart Opel Rekord
car which was parked in the motor garage compound.
He approached the garage owner to find out whether he could purchase
the Opel, and to our relief he agreed to sell it for Pounds 90.
At that time the foreign exchange rate was 12 Deutsch Marks to a
Pound Sterling. We still needed to obtain permission from the German
authorities to export the vehicle by obtaining special number plates
which meant we had to go personally to an office in Frankfurt.
The Language Barrier
When we approached an officer at the registration office in English
he simply pretended not to know the language, instead he called out to
his colleagues aloud: “Is anyone there who speaks English”? There was
not a hum, all heads pointed towards their tables and pretended to be
busy. Next moment to our astonishment the very officer had to deal with
us in perfect English!
Putting all that to our experience, and particularly to my bargain
Kevin offered me the vehicle for 45 Pounds in London which made me the
proud owner of my first vehicle in England as a student! Austin
Cambridge was later towed from Germany to London and handed over to
Kevin by the AA Five Star service and reimbursed him with the costs
incurred in having to stay an extra night in a Belgium hotel.
This goes to show how proud and loyal some people can be of their
mother tongue! If you are in France you will be greeted with Bonjour and
an Italian would say Comeste. Ah! Then you bump into Citizen Perera or
Silva in Colombo and speak to him in Sinhala and what do you get? A jaw
jaw in English! This is the difference between Sri Lankan and other
nationalities.
Once I parked my vehicle on a Colombo street leaving my wife inside
the car, approached a police officer in Sinhala: “Ralahamy mama
minutuwen enawa kamak nedda methane park karata? (Officer is it ok to
park here and I will be back in a jiffy). With a courteous nod, his
answer was: “No problem......, but..... Lady no get down… ok!). Why on
earth he could not have answered me in Sinhala when spoken to him in his
mother tongue? I began to think to myself.
False values
This is the kind of falsehood we are conditioned to believe in, even
in the 21st Century in our society. I am at a loss to understand why
many choose to reply in English when spoken to them in Sinhala! Do they
think it’s below their dignity to answer back in Sinhala?
Having lived in the West for decades, I prefer wearing rubber or
leather slippers to shoes to ventilate my toes rather than roasting my
feet inside socks in the blistering heat when I am in my own country.
Some would say: “Oh! No.! No!!! No!!!! Wear a pair of shoes because no
one will respect you if you wear slippers, especially if you visit an
office”!
By the same token, a long sleeve shirt, neck tie and tucked - in
shirt (even if it is meant to wear loose) and appear as a ‘standing
frog' on hind legs with protruded pot belly, seems to be the dress code
accepted in the Sri Lankan society for those who are inclined to wear
western outfits.
I do not give a damn about others’ opinion as long as I am
comfortable with whatever I wear! The British owner of Virgin Atlantic
Airlines, millionaire Sir Richard Branson, avoids wearing a tie. Do
people in Britain consider him as a hare-brained or a crackpot! Quite
the opposite!!
The standard convention in dressing up is to be comfortable with
whatever one puts on, but not to please or impress others surely! Those
who live in western countries have to be ‘overdressed’ only to withstand
severe cold weather conditions.
When Ceylon was under the Colonial rule even the British wore short
slacks for comfort most of the time, a hat to cover head from hot sun.
Planters in the hill country wore stockings up to knee level with
shoes for protection while walking up and down bushy plantations; also
may be to avoid being seen as ‘half baked fakirs’ wearing shoes without
socks!
Why do we need to purposely suffocate in the hot sun wearing long
sleeved shirts with strangulating tight tie knots? I sympathise with
those young sales guys who walk in the blistering heat under the sun
wearing long sleeve shirts, smothering tie knots and lugging many items
as promotional items just to make a living. How comfortable it would be
if they were allowed to do their arduous job by making them comfortable
with sensible attire! If a company needs to project their image, by all
means they can adopt a style similar to cricketers who don coloured
uniforms on one day international cricket!
Even in England the trend is fast disappearing except in the case of
official circumstances.
In summer people begin to look much happier when all winter gear gets
thrown into wardrobes and suitable light garments come to the fore.
Under the Colonial influence wearing long pants among Sri Lankans
became a fashion only among those who could converse in English, but in
modern times circumstances have changed that every Tom, Dick and Harry
and Harriet prefers to wear trousers for convenience.
How long will Sri Lanka take to get rid of the charade of wearing a
tie to impress upon others that one is a ‘gentleman’ or belongs to an
affluent class in society is food for thought.
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