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Islam’s inspiring contribution to human civilisation

(Excerpt from a speech entitled “Technology, Business and our way of life: What's Next?” by Carly Fiorina in Minneapolis, Minnesota on September 26, 2001)

There was once a civilization that was the greatest in the world. 

It was able to create a continental super-state that stretched from ocean to ocean and from northern climes to tropics and deserts. Within its dominion lived hundreds of millions of people, of different creeds and ethnic origins. One of its languages became the universal language of much of the world, the bridge between the peoples of a hundred lands.

Its armies were made up of people of many nationalities and its military protection allowed a degree of peace and prosperity that had never been known.

The reach of this civilization's commerce extended from Latin America to China, and everywhere in between.

And this civilization was driven more than anything, by invention.

Its architects designed buildings that defied gravity. Its mathematicians created the algebra and algorithms that would enable the building of computers, and the creation of encryption. Its doctors examined the human body and found new cures for disease. Its astronomers looked into the heavens, named the stars and paved the way for space travel and exploration.

Its writers created thousands of stories. Stories of courage, romance and magic.

Its poets wrote of love, when others before them were too steeped in fear to think of such things. When other nations were afraid of ideas, this civilization thrived on them and kept them alive.

When censors threatened to wipe out knowledge from past civilizations, this civilization kept the knowledge alive and passed it on to others.

While modern Western civilization shares many of these traits, the civilization I'm talking about was the Islamic world from the year 800 to 1600, which included the Ottoman Empire and the courts of Baghdad, Damascus and Cairo, and enlightened rulers like Suleiman the Magnificent.

Although we are often unaware of our indebtedness to this other civilization, its gifts are very much a part of our heritage. The technology industry would not exist without the contributions of Arab mathematicians. Sufi poet-philosophers like Rumi challenged our notions of self and truth. Leaders like Suleiman contributed to our notions of tolerance and civic leadership.

And perhaps we can learn a lesson from his example: It was leadership based on meritocracy, not inheritance. It was leadership that harnessed the full capabilities of a very diverse population-that included Christianity, Islamic, and Jewish traditions.

This kind of enlightened leadership - leadership that nurtured culture, sustainability, diversity and courage - led to 800 years of invention and prosperity.

In dark and serious times like this, we must affirm our commitment to building societies and institutions that aspire to this kind of greatness.

More than ever, we must focus on the importance of leadership- bold acts of leadership and decidedly personal acts of leadership. With that, I'd like to open up the conversation and see what we, collectively, believe about the role of leadership. 


Women’s rights in Islam

The issue of women in Islam, is topic of great misunderstanding and distortion due partly to a lack of understanding, but also partly due to misbehavior of some Muslims which has been taken to represent the teachings of Islam.

We speak here about what Islam teaches, and that is that standard according to which Muslims are to be judged. As such, my basis and source is the Quran-the words of Allah, and the sayings of the Prophet, his deeds and his confirmation. Islamic laws are derived from these sources. To facilitate our discussion we can discuss the position of women from a spiritual, economic, social, and political standpoint.

From the spiritual aspect, there are seven points to remember: According to the Quran, men and women have the same spirit, there is no superiority in the spiritual sense between men and women. (Noble Quran 4:1, 7:189, 42:11)

The Quran makes it clear that all human beings (and the phraseology doesn't apply to men or women alone, but to both) have what you might call a human; He “breathed some of My spirit into divine touch. When God created him” (or her in this sense). (Noble Quran 15:29 See also 32:9)

Trustee and Representative

Some of His spirit here means not in the incarnation sense, but the pure, innate spiritual nature that God has endowed her or him with. The Quran indicates again that one of the most honored positions of human is that God created the human, and it means both sexes, as His trustee and representative on earth. There are many references in the Quran that reaffirm this.

Nowhere in the Quran do we find any trace of any notion of blaming Eve for the first mistake or for eating from the forbidden tree.

Nowhere, even though the Quran speaks about Adam, Eve, and the forbidden tree, but in a totally different spirit. The story is narrated in 7:19-27, and it speaks about both of them doing this, both of them are told that both of them disobeyed, both of them discovered the consequences of their disobedience, both of them seek repentance and both of them are forgiven. Nowhere in the Quran does it say woman is to be blamed for the fall of man. Furthermore, when the Quran speaks about the suffering of women during the period of pregnancy and childbirth, nowhere does it connect it with the concept of original sin, because there is no concept of original sin in Islam.

The suffering is presented not as a reason to remind woman of the fall of man, but as a reason to adore and love woman or the mother. In the Quran, especially 31:14, 46:15, it makes it quite clear God has commanded upon mankind to be kind to parents and mentions,

“His mother bore him in difficulty or suffering upon suffering.Ó (Noble Quran 31:14, 46:15).

The Quran makes it clear again to remove any notion of superiority and there is no question of gender being involved.

In terms of moral, spiritual duties, acts of worship, the requirements of men and women are the same, except in some cases when women have certain concessions because of their feminine nature, or their health or the health of their babies. The Quran explicitly, in more than one verse, 3:195, 4:124, specified that whoever does good deeds, and is a believer and then specifies “male or female” God will give them an abundant reward.

Married women Property Act

In the area of economic rights, we have to remember that in Europe until the 19th century, women did not have the right to own their own property. When they were married, either it would transfer to the husband or she would not be able to dispense of it without permission of her husband. In Britain, perhaps the first country to give women some property rights, laws were passed in the 1860's known as “Married Women Property Act.Ó More than 1300 years earlier, that right was clearly established in Islamic law.

“Whatever men earn, they have a share of that and whatever women earn, they have a share in that.Ó (Noble Quran 4:32)

There is no restriction in Islamic law that says a woman cannot work or have a profession, that her only place is in the home.

In fact, by definition, in a truly Islamic society, there must be women physicians, women nurses, women teachers, because it's preferable also to separate teenagers in the volatile years in high school education.

And if she chooses to work she's entitled to equal pay, not for equal work, but for work of equal worth.

When it comes to financial security, Islamic law is more tilted in many respects towards women. These are seven examples: During the period of engagement, a woman is to be on the receiving side of gifts.

At the time of marriage, it is the duty of the husband, not the bride's family to pay for a marital gift. The Quran called it a gift, and it is exclusively the right of the woman. She doesn't have to spend it on the household; she doesn't have to give it to her father or anyone else.

If the woman happened to own any property prior to marriage, she retains that property after marriage. It remains under her control. Also, in most Muslim countries, the woman keeps her own last name, and her own identity.

If the woman has any earnings during her marital life, by way of investments of her property or as a result of work, she doesn't have to spend one penny of that income on the household, it is entirely hers. The full maintenance and support of a married woman is the entire responsibility of her husband, even though she might be richer than he is. She doesn't have to spend a penny.

At the time of divorce, there are certain guarantees during the waiting period and even beyond for a woman's support. If the widow or divorcee has children, she's entitled to child support.

In return for these listed securities, it is clear why the Islamic laws pertaining to inheritance give men a higher share. In Surah 81, the Quran condemned the chauvinistic attitudes of some people who used to greet the birth of a boy with gladness, but sadness in the case of a girl.

The duty of education, as the Prophet said, is on every Muslim, male and female. Once the Prophet (PBUH) was seated, a companion was sitting with him. The companion's son came. He kissed his son and put him on his lap. Then his daughter came, and he just sat her by his side. The Prophet told the man, ÓYou did not do Justice,Ó meaning he should have treated the daughter equally, kissed her and put her in his lap also. Indeed, whenever the Prophet's daughter Fatimah came to him, in front of everyone, he stood up, kissed her and let her sit in his favorite place where he'd been sitting.

Marital standpoint

From the marital standpoint, the Quran clearly indicates that marriage is not just an inevitable evil; marriage is not somebody getting married to his master or slave, but rather to his partner.

“Among His Signs is this, that he created for you, mates from among yourselves, those they maydwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): Verily in that are signs for those who reflect.Ó (Noble Quran 30:21)

There are numerous verses in the Quran to the same effect.

The approval and consent of the girl to marriage is a prerequisite for the validity of marriage in Islam. She has the right to say yes or no. Husbands’ and wives’ duties are mutual responsibilities. They might not be identical duties, but the totality of rights and responsibilities are balanced. The Quran says:

“Women have the same rights (in relation to their husbands) as are expected in all decency from them, while men stand a step above them.Ó (Noble Quran 2:228)

Provider, protector, maintainer, and leader

This only specifies the degree of responsibility, not privilege, in man's role as provider, protector, maintainer, and leader of the family. The same Surah speaks about divorce, about consultation between husband and wife, even in the case of divorce. When there are family disputes, first the Quran appeals to reason and the consideration of positive aspects of one's spouse,

“Dwell with your wives in kindness for even if you hate them, you might be hating someone in whom God has placed so much good.Ó (Noble Quran 4:19)

If that appeal does not succeed, and problems between the husband and wife continue, there are measures that can be applied. Some of these measures are done privately between husband and wife. Some of them might appear harsh, but there are qualifications to restrict excessive or abusive use of these measures.

These measures are considered an attempt to save a marriage rather than break a family apart. If the situation does not improve, even with the limitation and prevention of excesses, the next step is a family council. One arbiter from his family and one from her family should sit together with the couple and try to resolve the problems.

If a divorce becomes necessary, there are many detailed procedures in Islamic law that really knock down the common notion that divorce in Islam is very easy and that it is the sole right of man.

Divorce battles

It is not the sole right of man alone and neither is it true that all you have to say is: “I divorce you three times,” and that’s it. Islam also has laws regarding custody of children. I was very surprised to see newspapers making the false claim that in all cases custody goes to the father. Custody involves the interest of the child, and laws often favor the mother of young children.

Polygamy has become so mythical in the minds of many people that they assume being Muslim means having four wives. This is a false notion, of course.

A very renowned anthropologist, Edward Westermarck, in his two-volume work, “History of Human Marriage,” notes that there has been polygamy in virtually every culture and religion, including Judaism and Christianity. But the point here is not to say, “Why blame Islam?”

Actually, Islam is the only religion even among Abrahamic faiths, that specifically limited the practice of polygamy that existed before Islam and established very strict conditions for guidance. The question, “How could any man have two wives? That’s terrible!” reflects ethnocentrism. We assume that because we’re living in the West and it seems strange, and we assume it must apply to all cultures, all times, under all circumstances.

This simply isn’t true. Let me give you one current-day example. In the savage attack on Afghanistan, genocide was committed on the Afghani people. It is estimated that 1-1.5 million people lost their lives, a great majority of whom were men of a marriageable age. Now, with a great shortage of men, what will happen to their widows, their orphans and their daughters of marriageable age? Is it better to leave them in a camp, with a handout? Or better a man is willing to take care of his fallen comrade’s wife and children?

Limiting not instituting polygamy

It is obvious that monogamy is the norm for Muslims. If we assume that having four wives is the norm, then we assume a population of 80% female and 20% male, which is impossibility on the aggregate level.

The only verse in the Quran that speaks about polygamy, speaks about limiting not instituting polygamy.

The verse was revealed after the Battle of Uhud in which many Muslims were martyred, leaving behind wives and children in need of support. This verse shows the spirit and reason of the revelation.

The Quran placed obedience to parents immediately after worship of God. “We commanded mankind to be kind to his parents” (Noble Quran 31:14)

And then speaks of the mother. In a very succinct statement, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said, “Paradise is at the feet of mothers.” Once a man came to him and asked, “O, Messenger, who among mankind is worthy of my kindness and love?” The Prophet answered, “Your mother.” “Who next?” “Your mother?” “Who next?” “Your mother?” Only after the third time he said, “And your father.”

As a sister in faith, in blood, we find the Quran speaks about men and women that they should cooperate and collaborate in goodness. Surah 9:71 speaks about men and women as supporters and helpers of each other, ordaining the good and forbidding the evil, establishing prayers and doing charity. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) echoed what the Quran said, “I command you to be kind to women.” 

In one of his last commands in his farewell pilgrimage before his death, he kept repeating, “I command you to be kind and considerate to women.” In another hadith, he said, “It is only the generous in character who is good to women, and only the evil one who insults them.”

On the question of attire, the Quran and the sayings of the Prophet did not say women must adopt a particular dress of a particular country.

To be continued


An Islamic perspective on Muslim - Buddhist Dialogue

Continuation from 13/05/2013

The following stanza from the Dhammapada emphasis to keep the mind free from hatred:

“He abused me, he struck me, he robbed me – and in those who harbour such thought

Hatred will never cease

He abused me, he struck me, he robbed me- in those who does not harbour such thought Hatred will cease” The Dhammapada – 04

Hatreds never cease through hatred in this world: through love alone they cease. This is an eternal law. The Dhammapada – 05

Al Quran invites the believers to respond to an evil act with something better and enmity with love.

“Nor can goodness and evil be equal
Repeal evil with what is better
And then will he between whom
And thee was hatred
Become as it were
Thy friend and intimate!”
“And no one will be
Granted such goodness
Except those who exercise
Patience and self- restraint,-
None but persons of
The greatest good fortune. “- Quran 41:34
“Those who spend (freely),
Whether in prosperity,
Or in adversity;
Who restrain anger,
And pardon (all) men:-
For Allah loves those
Who do good:- Quran- 3:134

This Quranic Statement of responding to an evil act with something better is also emphasis by Buddha as follows: Conquer anger by love, evil by good; Conquer the miser with liberality, and the liar with truth. The Dhammapada – 223

Anger according to the Quran is the satanic impulse which must be controlled and overcome with the spirit of forgiveness.

Compassion, patience and spirit of forgiveness emphasized by Islam and Buddhism and for that matter Hinduism and other religions could contribute to great extent to ease tensions, to reduce conflict and create a healthy atmosphere for the peace and harmony.

Islam is religion of peace, and Salam is one of the attribute of God. The Islamic form of salutation is an embodiment of peace and paradise is known by the name Darus salam – abode of peace. Life of prophet Mohamed – peace be upon him- presents to us number of Instances in which he exerted all his effort to bring reconciliation and peace among those who are in conflict. When prophet migrated to Yathrib the whole city was on the verge of major conflict between two tribes Aws and Khazrej and prophet brought reconciliation between two factions and avoided a major crisis. Quran refers to this incident in the following verses:

And remember with gratitude
Allah’s favour on you;
For you were enemies
And He joined your hearts
In love, so that by His Grace
You become brethren;
And you were on the brink
Of the Pit of Fire,
And He saved you from it.
Thus doth Allah make
His Signs clear to you
That you may be guided”
Quran 3: 103

Buddhis Sutta – Nipatika contain the following beautiful wish of the Buddha for the Universal peace.

“May all be blessed with peace always
All creations, weak and strong
All creatures great or small
Creatures seen or unseen
Dwelling afar or near
Born or awaiting death
May all be pleased with peace
As a mother with her own life from shields
From hearting her own son his own child
Let all embracing thought for all the lives be thine
And all embracing love for the entire Universe.”

Tolerance, mutual understanding, seeking unity in diversity by drawing inspiration from the teachings of religions on the basis of shared values and commonalities among them is the only way to ensure a peaceful and harmonious social order. Only through dialogue and inter-action between the religions that we could achieve this objective of building bridges of understanding between religions and create a healthy and conducive atmosphere for peace, harmony and co – existence.

Declaration of Principle on Tolerance Proclaimed and signed by the Member States of UNESCO on November 16 1995 provides a very broad definition of tolerance as follows: “Tolerance is respect, acceptance and appreciation of the rich diversity of our world’s culture, our forms of experience and ways of being human. It is fostered by knowledge, openness, communication, and freedom of thought, conscience and belief. Tolerance is harmony in difference. It is not only a moral duty; it is also a political and legal requirement. Tolerance, the virtue that makes peace possible, contributes to the replacement of the culture of war by a culture of peace.”

Dr. M A M Shukri - Director Jamiah Naleemiah-Beruwala

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