Students discipline
Lal Fonseka Productivity Consultant, Brandix Lanka
Limited
Some months back one girl in a reputed school in Colombo committed
suicide over an incident occurred due to a mobile phone. As a result,
the government banned using mobile phones in schools not only by
students and also by the teachers. Many argued that the child committing
suicide must be dealt with a proper inquiry beyond the ban of mobiles in
schools. This ban is strictly been followed by the teachers and it is a
commonly seen that teachers are using the phones irrespective of this
ban which show that this is a ban which is not practicable.
Mobiles are strictly banned in a school located in Negombo area. If
anyone is caught with a mobile in school the said mobile is confiscated
and left in school Principals office where the childs parent will need
to physically go to school and sign for its return. There is a large
cupboard located in the room with almost full of phones. Though the
parents could meet the principal and request the phone back, according
to the Principal it never happens as they do not like to face the
Principal.
So mobile phones, any kind of electronic equipment such as iPods, mp3
players or portable game players are strictly prohibited from school.
The tone and the manner this prohibition is conducted under work well to
keep it running smoothly. This is nothing but discipline.
In my view, CHILDREN DO NOT NEED MOBILES IN SCHOOL
Discipline is the key to success - this saying holds true for all
times and for all people of all age groups. But for students it holds a
great value. In contemporary times there are so many temptations that
can lure a student away from his basic objective in life. You can be
almost anything you want, if you are self-disciplined.
Once you are self-disciplined, you could continue with your studies
much more effectively and finally could end-up with good academic
results. Self-discipline students will receive the blessings from
everyone especially from the teachers.
Not only for students, self-discipline is very important for everyone
living in this world. With discipline, you can solve almost any problem,
including losing weight, overcoming addiction and saving money. Despite
the benefits, few people ever incorporate this into their lives. We all
know the problems we want to overcome, but because of procrastination
and disorder, we are unable to fix them which are the very reason we say
that procrastination is a crime.
Discipline is your ultimate tool for personal empowerment. It means
taking control and getting your life in order. You need to commit to
doing this, now and honor that commitment to yourself. Life is too short
to put it off any longer.
Once you become self-disciplined, your life will improve
dramatically. You will be able to plan your days and have time set aside
for being creative. You will be much more focused, which means your
brain will work better and faster. You will also have a lot more time
for relaxation, because you will use your time efficiently.
Your life will never blossom until it is focused, dedicated and
disciplined. Success, you will discover, is nothing more than a few
simple disciplines, practiced every day. Combine self-discipline with
passion for what you are doing, personal goals and good organization and
you will reach your human potential.
The glittering world of advertisement, the glamorous world of
modelling and cinema unfold a new era in front of young people and they
are wooed by the glamour. Those of us who are not wise enough to think
rationally will be swept off our feet and carried away by the fast paced
winds of change.
It is good to change; I am certainly not against changing. But the
million-dollar question is, how much to change, when to change and,
above all, why do we need to change?
These are the questions young minds should put to themselves before
they blindly follow the latest trends. Everything that glitters is
certainly not gold and many a times what does not glitter and does not
catch one’s fancy might be more precious than gold. Before being swept
off by changing winds, a student should think and consciously choose
which path to follow. Apart from these, web chatting also takes up much
of a youngster’s time.
At a student’s level, where there is cut-throat competition and time
is extremely precious, these can prove to be real obstacles to overcome.
Self-discipline is something students should aim to achieve. It is not a
commodity one can buy from the market.
It is a rare quality which one has to inculcate, nurture and cherish
from early childhood. Through self-discipline will come concentration
which will in turn help a student to scale newer heights of academic
excellence. Success will be theirs for the taking who value and practice
self-discipline and abide by it at all times.
Temptations are always there. Only the forms of temptations change.
But those of us who learn the subtle art of self-discipline and
self-constraint, nothing can prevent us from attaining our goals in
life. Let us all aim to be a little more self-disciplined from
henceforth.
It does not require a lot of research to tell us that discipline in
school is different today than it was in the 1950s. But certain valid
investigations have shown that students who act up in school express a
variety of reasons for doing so:
Some think that teachers do not care about them.
Others do not want to be in school at all.
They do not consider goal setting and success in school important
anymore.
Students are unaware that their adolescent behaviours will result in
punishment they will not like.
Discipline enforcers have to go through long procedures of due
process: hearings, specific charges, witnesses and appeals.
Despite these hurdles, students agree that discipline is needed in
schools. One high school student stated: “If there were no discipline,
the school would not be distinguished from the street.”
So if everyone agrees that discipline is a key to safety in school,
why do we still have a problem? |