Give IDPs some reason to live for
Having had dealt with the Muslims who settled in Puttalam after being
chased away in 1990 and with the tsunami ravaged areas, many NGOs have
recognized two major mistakes done by us in the process of
rehabilitating them one consequent to the other .
Having felt sympathy for them, we treated them as if they are
incapable of doing anything for themselves.
Therefore, the NGOs brought labourers and other skilled workers from
outside and cleared areas, built houses, dug wells and fed and clothed
them.
This brought out two outcomes: one: they expected us to pamper them
even in small matters, such as clearing their own front yards and
secondly we created a generation of lazy people who will not even lift a
finger to change their own situation.
We have a group of younger generation in Puttalam who neither studied
well nor found manual labour appealing. Ultimately they ended up as a
crowd spending their time
outside the tea boutiques, indulging in futile TV watching, drugs,
vain talk and other vices. Though this is not a sweeping statement, we
did create a group thanks to being over pampering and under utilizing
their skills.
Let us not do the same mistake again with the present IDPs. As soon
as they regain their strength and minds, they should be given the option
of working to build the houses and other paraphernalia needed for their
living.
The younger generation should be given the option to continue their
studies - which should be compulsory for the little ones as it is in
other parts of the country; and for the older youth, some vocational
training must be set up which will help them to go forward in life.
And for the elders the chance to participate in rebuilding their own
living areas, and they should be paid for this.
This way they will have a purpose in life and this will also help
them to recover from the mental trauma they are undergoing, because of
what they went through as well as because of the loss of their loved
ones.
We will end up with a healthier society if we plan this carefully.
Dr. Mareena
Thaha Reffai
Dehiwela.
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